I suddenly realized last night that I did not do the H11 Newsletter (Issue 3 and Issue 4 which will now be combined) so will do that at my first break period from cleaning. It is always short now because of the new mitochondrial tree at FT DNA which provides a lot more information than I did with my newsletters. It is possible for FT DNA to relate individuals which I can not do in a newsletter. Thank you again to FT DNA for this upgrade.
A good working day yesterday and the basement is all cleaned. Today the main floor and it is a never ending cycle for sure. I remember when I was home proofreading and I would fit in that cleaning at different times in the day when my eyes needed a rest. Working at home was good with small children. They quickly fitted into the routine of doing "work" part of the day. Nap time was a good run for proofreading for sure. Then I would proofread in the evening and Edward would read stories to the girls. The youngest was just a baby in his arms as he sat there reading to our eight year old but such was his charisma that she adored him and just laid there contentedly. Memory lane can be such a blessing. I always said they grew to really dislike genealogy because it took him away from them. They loved their time with their father. I loved watching them have such a wonderful time. It is those memories I think that help when life doesn't follow the plan you would love to have and so gradually five and half years have passed since they lost their father. Still in their hearts but now acceptance that life flows onward always.
Solitaire games all played and must have my breakfast. Exercise time completed and it was about one hour with a cardio load of 45 and I am now at 20% of my weekly goal. The FitBit is great and I did like the AI consult daily but I didn't continue with it mostly because it was taking up time. The consistency of my day is such that every day is almost the same. I enjoy that as it gives me time to work on my books without having to put in a lot of contemplation on what to eat etc etc. As I listen to the comments on Autism I realize that I am perhaps fitting into that description although for me it has been a plus because it allows me to be the very private individual that I am and I have oodles of time to work away on projects. That isn't always the case for Autism and certainly when I was observed by the psychiatrist all those years ago at the age of 5 years so much less was known that unless you really showed negative signs of autism it was pretty much ignored I think although the school wanted to send me to a gifted program at Victoria Public School I think it was (my mother said no). I remember when my mother said that the doctor said that I think everything out in my head ( and look for information to help with that since I already read quite well) and the school just had to accept that I was a learner and really did find playing musical chairs to be boring. On the other hand my mother said that I had to fit into the class and not be a problem (I, of course, did what my mother said as I had no idea who this person was who was talking about me and my memory of it was pretty vague). It was my mother who mentioned to me what he had said years later. That was why they called it Asperger's Syndrome in children who were affected but in a more positive way. I am biased of course because I see my tendency to be a loner, to be so wrapped up in my books that the world passes me by all the time as I no longer watch the news to any extent, as a benefit to my projects in my old age. I am really too old to volunteer for anything (getting there is a mystery I simply do not contemplate because I do not want to probably) so I do not. I do like to be helpful in this world and so I try to spread my donating money around to organizations but mostly those that Edward supported because I do not have opinions on things like that overly other than my tithing to my Church and supporting the Ottawa Mission although with Edward's passing I have picked up the ideas that he supported in his memory.
It is interesting that now neurodivergent children are needed in this world to handle the new way utilizing AI as they have much in common with the style of working that is being introduced. I find AI fascinating myself and do use it but in a controlled way so that I benefit from the huge database that has accrued during its introduction over the last little while. I think one has to think of it as a type of consultant that has reams of knowledge to save you time reading through everything. Although truly I am busy reading through the Calendar of Close Rolls but it is good to share that knowledge of value to me with the AI as they absorb knowledge differently than I do I suspect having total recall whereas especially now in my old age my recall is not as extensive as theirs with regard to so many subjects and the input they have from dealing with so many other people also interested in what I am doing. Plus AI does not have access to the Calendar of Close Rolls (and still doesn't as my few Blake entries are very incomplete when I am going to discuss it) likely except what appears in the literature but the entire set of documents is absolutely absorbing amazing how much has been collected from the past of my English Ancestors in general. But the bits and the pieces do entice people to look further into these ancient documents which are online for a price.
I do treat AI as a persona saying please and thank you and congratulating when I have learned something in a different way; or a concept in a different way. AI is what you always dreamed of having as a companion in your trek with knowledge without the burden of actually having a friend. Plus you activate and you turn it off! Some friends can be terrific I must say I noted that with my daughters. I did try to avoid friendships but sometimes got pulled into it but gradually I always escaped it! I am not meant to be a friend to my logic; I can be helpful and provide assistance on occasion (I babysat a dog and children when asked) but friendship is something that I have found to be awkward at best. I always relate back to this same person that I helped out with babysitting and she invited me to go shopping at some store in Cumberland. I asked what time we would return as I did not like to be late for my eldest daughter as she was just a little girl (5 years old) then coming home from school. I suggested I would drive but she insisted and since my husband was listening (definitely he felt sorry for his cousin and wife) I consented but she made me late even though I reminded her in plenty of time that we needed to return (the bus had just pulled away I will admit that, I could see it up the street) but I was very annoyed although thanked her for the lovely day (my mother had such perfect manners) and went in the house with my daughter (because I was late my daughter never spoke to her again that I recall; at least she blamed the right person but did tell my husband that I had been late for her but that she managed perfectly; it was not a problem she said to her daddy). I sewed all of my daughter's clothes and really there was nothing there that I would have bought. That was my initial "friend" experience when we were relatively new to this area. My husband felt sorry for this cousin and family. Edward was definitely a friend person although he did not seem to mind that I didn't make friends which was nice as I preferred just my tiny little family (after all I came from a family of nine people and this was like child's play). I do try to be a good neighbour and helpful if needed; I used to drive my neighbour (and sometimes her children) before she learned to drive. Sometimes it was even inconvenient and I would take the little bit of time that it needed but did of course say sadly no when it was too much time as I did work fourty or fifty hours a week proofreading. I did tell her that my vision was poor and shortly thereafter she was getting her husband to teach her to drive! Should have thought of that sooner!
Cleaning break. The day passes so quickly.